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letters to his son, 1750-第14部分

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ntilian lay upon it; even the herb…women at Athens were correct judges of it。  Oratory; with all its graces; that of enunciation in particular; is full as necessary in our government as it ever was in Greece or Rome。  No man can make a fortune or a figure in this country; without speaking; and speaking well in public。  If you will persuade; you must first please; and if you will please; you must tune your voice to harmony; you must articulate every syllable distinctly; your emphasis and cadences must be strongly and properly marked; and the whole together must be graceful and engaging: If you do not speak in that manner; you had much better not speak at all。 All the learning you have; or ever can have; is not worth one groat without it。  It may be a comfort and an amusement to you in your closet; but can be of no use to you in the world。  Let me conjure you; therefore; to make this your only object; till you have absolutely conquered it; for that is in your power; think of nothing else; read and speak for nothing else。  Read aloud; though alone; and read articulately and distinctly; as if you were reading in public; and on the most important occasion。  Recite pieces of eloquence; declaim scenes of tragedies to Mr。 Harte; as if he were a numerous audience。  If there is any particular consonant which you have a difficulty in articulating; as I think you had with the R; utter it millions and millions of times; till you have uttered it right。  Never speak quick; till you have first learned to speak well。  In short; lay aside every book; and every thought; that does not directly tend to this great object; absolutely decisive of your future fortune and figure。

The next thing necessary in your destination; is writing correctly; elegantly; and in a good hand too; in which three particulars; I am sorry to tell you; that you hitherto fail。  Your handwriting is a very bad one; and would make a scurvy figure in an office…book of letters; or even in a lady's pocket…book。  But that fault is easily cured by care; since every man; who has the use of his eyes and of his right hand; can write whatever hand he pleases。  As to the correctness and elegance of your writing; attention to grammar does the one; and to the best authors the other。  In your letter to me of the 27th June; N。 S。; you omitted the date of the place; so that I only conjectured from the contents that you were at Rome。

Thus I have; with the truth and freedom of the tenderest affection; told you all your defects; at least all that I know or have heard of。  Thank God; they are all very curable; they must be cured; and I am sure; you will cure them。  That once done; nothing remains for you to acquire; or for me to wish you; but the turn; the manners; the address; and the GRACES; of the polite world; which experience; observation; and good company; will insensibly give you。  Few people at your age have read; seen; and known; so much as you have; and consequently few are so near as yourself to what I call perfection; by which I only; mean being very near as well as the best。  Far; therefore; from being discouraged by what you still want; what you already have should encourage you to attempt; and convince you that by attempting you will inevitably obtain it。  The difficulties which you have surmounted were much greater than any you have now to encounter。  Till very lately; your way has been only through thorns and briars; the few that now remain are mixed with roses。 Pleasure is now the principal remaining part of your education。  It will soften and polish your manners; it will make you pursue and at last overtake the GRACES。  Pleasure is necessarily reciprocal; no one feels; who does not at the same time give it。  To be pleased one must please。 What pleases you in others; will in general please them in you。  Paris is indisputably the seat of the GRACES; they will even court you; if you are not too coy。  Frequent and observe the best companies there; and you will soon be naturalized among them; you will soon find how particularly attentive they are to the correctness and elegance of their language; and to the graces of their enunciation: they would even call the understanding of a man in question; who should neglect or not know the infinite advantages arising from them。  'Narrer; reciter; declamer bien'; are serious studies among them; and well deserve to be so everywhere。 The conversations; even among the women; frequently turn upon the elegancies and minutest delicacies of the French language。  An 'enjouement'; a gallant turn; prevails in all their companies; to women; with whom they neither are; nor pretend to be; in love; but should you (as may very possibly happen) fall really in love there with some woman of fashion and sense (for I do not suppose you capable of falling in love with a strumpet); and that your rival; without half your parts or knowledge; should get the better of you; merely by dint of manners; 'enjouement; badinage'; etc。; how would you regret not having sufficiently attended to those accomplishments which you despised as superficial and trifling; but which you would then find of real consequence in the course of the world!  And men; as well as women; are taken by those external graces。  Shut up your books; then; now as a business; and open them only as a pleasure; but let the great book of the world be your serious study; read it over and over; get it by heart; adopt its style; and make it your own。

When I cast up your account as it now stands; I rejoice to see the balance so much in your favor; and that the items per contra are so few; and of such a nature; that they may be very easily cancelled。  By way of debtor and creditor; it stands thus:

Creditor。   By French                   Debtor。 To English                German                              Enunciation                Italian                             Manners                Latin                Greek                Logic                Ethics                History                |Naturae            Jus |Gentium                |Publicum

This; my dear friend; is a very true account; and a very encouraging one for you。  A man who owes so little can clear it off in a very little time; and; if he is a prudent man; will; whereas a man who; by long negligence; owes a great deal; despairs of ever being able to pay; and therefore never looks into his account at all。

When you go to Genoa; pray observe carefully all the environs of it; and view them with somebody who can tell you all the situations and operations of the Austrian army; during that famous siege; if it deserves to be called one; for in reality the town never was besieged; nor had the Austrians any one thing necessary for a siege。  If Marquis Centurioni; who was last winter in England; should happen to be there; go to him with my compliments; and he will show you all imaginable civilities。

I could have sent you some letters to Florence; but that I knew Mr。 Mann would be of more use to you than all of them。  Pray make him my compliments。  Cultivate your Italian; while you are at Florence; where it is spoken in its utmost purity; but ill pronounced。

Pray save me the seed of some of the best melons you eat; and put it up dry in paper。  You need not send it me; but Mr。 Harte will bring it in his pocket when he comes over。  I should likewise be glad of some cuttings of the best figs; especially la Pica gentile and the Maltese; but as this is not the season for them; Mr。 Mann will; I dare say; undertake that commission; and send them to me at the proper time by Leghorn。  Adieu。  Endeavor to please others; and divert yourself as much as ever you can; in 'honnete et galant homme'。

P。  S。  I send you the inclosed to deliver to Lord Rochford; upon your arrival at Turin。




LETTER CXVIII。

LONDON; August 6; O。 S。  1750

MY DEAR FRIEND:  Since your letter from Sienna; which gave me a very imperfect account both of your illness and your recovery; I have not received one word either from you or Mr。 Harte。  I impute this to the carelessness of the post simply: and the great distance between us at present exposes our letters to those accidents。  But when you come to Paris; from whence the letters arrive here very regularly; I shall insist upon you writing to me constantly once a week; and that upon the same day; for instance; every Thursday; that I may know by what mail to expect your letter。  I shall also require you to be more minute in your account of yourself than you have hitherto been; or than I have required; because of the informations which I receive from time to time from Mr。 Harte。 At Paris you will be out of your time; and must set up for yourself; it is then that I shall be very solicitous to know how you carry on your business。  While Mr。 Harte was your partner; the care was his share; and the profit yours。  But at Paris; if you will have the latter; you must take the former along with it。  It will be quite a new world to you; very different from the little world that you have hitherto seen; and you will have much more to do in it。  You must keep your little accounts constantly every morning; if you would not have them run into confusion; and swell to a bulk that would frighten you from ever looking into them at all。  You 
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